Your fic was posted the day before Christmas eve. I have been extremely sporatic online most of December. There's no way for you to know that unless you're on my flist, but you didn't give the benefit of the doubt. I get the insecurities - when my recipient didn't respond within a day, I got insecure too... but I figured (a) I don't know this person, I don't know what's going on in their life (b) it's the holidays, they might be busy.
When you came to my journal - yes, once, but when you wrote, I responded and it was a little putting-me-on-the-spot - I told you that I DID like it and I just needed time to FB and that I wasn't at my computer much (without the sob story/personal info of WHY I wasn't at my computer).
Rabid_R posted "who wants fic" many many many many many weeks ago. It was completely independent of wwe_divas. For you to assume it had anything to do with you is just silly.
To comment on a fic written for me seems passive aggressive because you knew I would see it, plus this isn't the place for this, PLUS you had already contacted me. Even if it was all because you were feeling insecure, this was really not the way to deal with it.
In fact, it was hurtful to me and to this author. Who wants drama in their fic journal?
And instead of giving me a chance to enjoy gifts that were supposed to be for me, you were only concerned with how it affected you. Even if that meant hurting me - you don't know me, and I'm a pretty sensitive person.
You need to (a) stop jumping to conclusions (b) stop assuming that things have to do with you when they might not (and in this case don't) (c) stop being insecure. Easily said than done, I know... but I really enjoyed your Trish/Jericho fic and appreciated that you wrote it. It IS GOOD. But all of this? Kinda necessary. And kinda hurtful.
I hope you get where I'm coming from... I'm not trying to attack, I'm trying to stand up for myself because for some reason you brought your issue with me here.
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When you came to my journal - yes, once, but when you wrote, I responded and it was a little putting-me-on-the-spot - I told you that I DID like it and I just needed time to FB and that I wasn't at my computer much (without the sob story/personal info of WHY I wasn't at my computer).
Rabid_R posted "who wants fic" many many many many many weeks ago. It was completely independent of wwe_divas. For you to assume it had anything to do with you is just silly.
To comment on a fic written for me seems passive aggressive because you knew I would see it, plus this isn't the place for this, PLUS you had already contacted me. Even if it was all because you were feeling insecure, this was really not the way to deal with it.
In fact, it was hurtful to me and to this author. Who wants drama in their fic journal?
And instead of giving me a chance to enjoy gifts that were supposed to be for me, you were only concerned with how it affected you. Even if that meant hurting me - you don't know me, and I'm a pretty sensitive person.
You need to (a) stop jumping to conclusions (b) stop assuming that things have to do with you when they might not (and in this case don't) (c) stop being insecure. Easily said than done, I know... but I really enjoyed your Trish/Jericho fic and appreciated that you wrote it. It IS GOOD. But all of this? Kinda necessary. And kinda hurtful.
I hope you get where I'm coming from... I'm not trying to attack, I'm trying to stand up for myself because for some reason you brought your issue with me here.